Dear Abby: I cant make friends in my new town because local women keep trying to steal my husband
DEAR ABBY: My 18-year-old stepdaughter has decided to date another female.She has dated boys in the past, but that’s not the issue.
We have nothing against the LGBTQ community.(My husband’s brother is gay.)My issue is, should my stepdaughter spend time with her girlfriend in her bedroom with the door closed? If this were a boy, my husband would certainly have an issue with it — fear of sexual activity leading to getting pregnant.We are both old school about that but have embraced her new relationship.
But we definitely don’t want our house to be the hook-up point.It makes us uncomfortable.How should we handle this? — OPEN DOOR IN PENNSYLVANIADEAR OPEN DOOR: Handle this the same way you would if you were writing about the young woman having a boyfriend.Tell her you are uncomfortable with sexual activity going on in your home and prefer that if she entertains her girlfriend in her bedroom, she must leave the door open. DEAR ABBY: My husband and I recently moved to a smaller town from a big city to be closer to our new grandbaby.This town is populated with a large number of older single women and, since day one, they have been drawn in droves to my husband, who is a very good-looking older man. These women behave as if I am not even there.
They move very close to us while we are shopping and flirt with him.I have had to physically insert myself between one of them and my husband on several occasions.Not only is this annoying while it’s happening, but I’m having a hard time making friends.More than one female friend has developed an unhealthy crush on him, so I no longer trust other women.
What do I do? — JUST THE WIFE IN VERMONTDEAR WIFE: You are going to have to decide to what degree you trust your husband not to stray, and concentrate your efforts on making friends with other couples.It would also be nice if your husband could remind these women that he’s married and that you’re right there.DEAR ABBY: My wife went on vacation with her best ...