Jana Hocking reveals the sex fact that will blow mens minds: Big relief

OK men, there’s something I’m about to share with you that will probably come as a big relief.Chatting to the girls the other night at dinner, we posed the question – would you rather a guy lasted 30 seconds or one hour in the bedroom?We all agreed, we would rather they lasted 30 seconds.And believe it or not, it’s actually the BIGGEST compliment ever.You know those ridiculous porn videos that go on forever? Yeah, well, they’re total BS.

I mean, who actually wants to spend an hour in bed doing the same thing over and over again?Tedious.Boring.

Snore.Seriously, I have a special man friend who sometimes pops over to my place on his work break, and the thrill of that quickie makes life worth living.In fact, on the odd occasion I’ve even dropped into his work on my way home from a night out and those five minutes in the back office have made for the perfect end-of-the-night treat.However, thanks to porn and movies that make it look like couples are shagging all night, I believe men have developed this unnecessary anxiety around “lasting the distance” – but we honestly don’t want them to.

I certainly don’t.The truth is, women are more into quality over quantity when it comes to sex.A quickie can be just as satisfying (if not more so) than a marathon session.And here’s why.Think about it: foreplay is the appetizer.

It sets the mood, gets you excited and makes the main course even more enjoyable.So if you’re spending less time on the actual act, you can spend more time on building anticipation and desire.That’s where you want to spend most of the time.A quickie doesn’t mean you have to stick to the same old routine.

You can try different positions, toys or locations.A quick shag in an office cupboard sure beats a boring long session stuck in missionary in a bed.The possibilities are endless.Let’s face it, worrying about “lasting the distance” can be a real buzzkill.

When you’re not under pressure to perform, you can relax and enj...