Opinion | How Bad Do You Want It, Ladies?

Usually, I get political wisdom from Rahm Emanuel, not his brother Ari.But a quote from Ari, the Hollywood macher, to Puck’s Matthew Belloni about the gender chasm in 2024 caught my eye.“This election is gonna come down to probably 120,000 votes,” Ari said.“You probably have 60 percent of the male vote for Trump, and the female vote is 60-40 for Kamala.

It’s a jump ball.We’re gonna find out who wants this more — men or women.”Are we back to the days of Mars versus Venus? Or did we never leave?It is the ultimate battle of the sexes in the most visceral of elections.

Who will prevail? The women, especially young women, who are appalled at the cartoonish macho posturing and benighted stances of Donald Trump and his entourage? Or the men, including many young men, union men, Latino and Black men, who are drawn to Trump’s swaggering, bullying and insulting, seeing him as the reeling-backward antidote to shrinking male primacy.Drilling into the primal yearnings of men and women — their priorities, identities, anger and frustration — makes this election even more fraught.When I wrote a book about gender in 2005, I assumed that, a couple of decades later, we’d all be living peacefully on the same planet.

But no Cassandra, I.The sexual revolution intensified our muddle, leaving women in a tangle of dependence and independence in the 21st century.

The more we imitated men, the more we realized how different we were.Progress zigzags.But it was dispiriting to see the fierce backlash to Geraldine Ferraro, Anita Hill and Hillary Clinton’s co-presidency and candidacy.In Kamala Harris’s case, the backlash is evident even before the election.

Surveys reflect the same doubts about a woman in the White House that I saw covering Ferraro in 1984.Many men — and many women — still wonder if women are too emotional to deal with world leaders and lead the military.We are having trouble retrieving the article content.Please enable JavaScript in your brow...