Dont overlook these subtle signs your partner is cheating on you, a therapist warns

Beware the breadcrumbs of betrayal.Evidence of a philandering partner isn’t always as obvious as a pair of strange panties on the floor, according to one seen-it-all sexpert.

Bhavna Raithatha, a psychotherapist in the United Kingdom, is sounding the alarm regarding the subtle signs that your soulmate could be having an affair — including erectile dysfunction, a suddenly increased appetite for sex, excessive phone use and a shorter-than-usual fuse.Contrary to popular belief, for example, cheating spouses won’t necessarily say no to nooky, per Raithatha, who is accredited by the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy.One would think that the offenders would have a lower sex drive, after ostensibly fulfilling their carnal desires on the side.However, sometimes they seek to have it off with their other half even more because an affair increases libido to the point that they “become like a Duracell bunny,” the sexpert told the Daily Mail.“Partners, who may temporarily feel guilty about this, redirect this heightened sex drive towards their current partner,” the extramarital sex sleuth declared.“But it may just be a physical release to release tension — not emotional.”Often times, a woman scorned can tell if her spouse is cheating during sex — as they tend to go on autopilot without any “eye contact,” Raithatha explained.Conversely, as many experts have pointed out, spontaneously losing interest in intimacy can be a red flag as well — especially if one’s sex life was good before.“For men, especially, they can experience a form of erectile dysfunction, because the emotion just isn’t there so they won’t be able to get it up,” the sexpert explained.

“They will suddenly start making excuses to not have sex, and the reason is because they want to be loyal to their new person.”Another indication of infidelity? If one’s paramour is addicted to their phone.Now, might be hard to distinguish this from a normal phone addi...