Opinion | 10 Life Lessons for Grown-ups From Childrens Classics

It’s easy to get sentimental about the joy children’s books bring to kids.But picture books must also be read by adults, who, depending on the text, may not be quite as charmed.

(My sympathies to anyone worn out by the vast “Biscuit” oeuvre.)What, then, can grown-ups glean from all those hours reading aloud? In the holiday spirit and with New Year’s resolutions ahead, here are 10 enduring takeaways from some of the best children’s books, which, like most great art, work for all ages.1.“Where the Sidewalk Ends”: Shel Silverstein was a master at sneaking insights into children’s poetry.

My favorite example, in this book, is the four-line poem “Arrows,” illustrated by a pierced cloud that has descended beside a shamefaced child holding a lowered bow.The lesson: Beware unintended consequences.2.

“A Light in the Attic”: If the Silverstein estate didn’t charge an arm and a leg for rights, I’d probably want the poem “Peckin’” from this book carved into my headstone.It conveys the lament of a sad-eyed woodpecker who pecks fruitlessly at a plastic tree: “Things ain’t as sweet as they used to be.” New isn’t always better.3.

“Hop on Pop”: I prefer the subtler revelations of this deceptively blithe little book to those in Dr.Seuss’s inspirational graduation card of a book, “Oh, the Places You’ll Go!” In one sequence, a girl encounters a Thing that can sing.

But the Thing drones on and on.“Good-by, Thing.

You sing too long,” the girl says, waving him off, a sentiment echoed in many a meeting when a long talker holds forth.Not on my time, Thing.

You choose what to let in.4.“Caleb and Kate”: William Steig begins with a husband storming out in the middle of an argument with his wife, Kate.

Just as Caleb finally calms down and readies himself to go home and make amends, a witch turns him into a dog.And that is what happens if you walk out in the middle of a fight.

Never wait to apologize.We are having trouble r...