Boys who blubber make better lovers.Turns out, sobbers are better in the sack, according to a sexpert.“Men who cry are the best lovers,” Marina Lazaris, said relationship expert and author of Men Need Love Too.“The fine line between vulnerability and masculinity is the biggest challenge for men in today’s society,” Lazaris told The Sun.She explained that finding a man in touch with his emotions will allow people to find the “catch of a lifetime, rather than just a day.”That’s something Gen Z seems to be catching on to as many young women are swiping right on nice guys who are in touch with their feminine side — a brunch-loving, feelings-having type of guy known as “babygirl” — like actor Jacob Elordi, for example.“I think the definition of what is masculine is changing,” Adam Cohen-Aslatei, director of Tawkify matchmaking service, previously told The Post.“Some traditional norms are shifting.
Masculinity today is not about being a tough guy but about being honest, respectful, protective and emotionally expressive.”About 31% of American men have actively changed their behavior to become more vulnerable and open with people they are dating, according to Bumble’s 2024 Dating Trends report.“Men are now more comfortable showing who they are emotionally, their authentic selves, and letting their personalities shine through instead of putting up barriers or worrying about being too emotionally expressive,” Cohen-Aslatei noted.And for a quarter of men — 25% globally — this new-found openness has had a positive impact on their emotional state, Bumble reported.“This desire to make mental health stigma-free for males goes hand-in-glove with a desire to reshape masculinity in ways that allow for a broader aesthetic and emotional range,” Gabriel Rubin, a professor of Justice Studies at Montclair State University, told The Post....